Play Dates are so much fun and learning at the same time. It is very important for young ones to mingle and play with other kids. I am happy to have a group of same-aged toddlers.
Benefits for the baby:
- Learns social skills
- Learns to express
- Learns to play in groups
- Learns to share
- Learns to say “NO” (very important characteristic)
- Gets good physical exercise, play, workout – basically a constructive way to channel out that extra energy
- Helps maintain digestion & metabolism
- Gets good peaceful relaxing sleep (“wink”)
- Stays HAPPY in the joyful company
Benefits for mommy:
- Gets to socialize
- Gets to chat (“Stress buster”)
- Gets her dose of caffeine (and re-energize)
- Gets some rest, while baby is busy chasing friends (relaxing)
- Gets good peaceful relaxing sleep (of course)
- Gets some more “ME TIME” or time for spouse (‘wink”)
- Becomes HAPPY to see her baby enjoying
So a total WIN-WIN situation!!
If you want to include learning along with fun, you can always organize a THEMED PLAY DATE. Here I am listing few ideas:
- Doctor Theme:
Every child can be asked to bring a stuff toy to be a patient or even the kids can pretend to be patients. Only one person needs to own a Doctor set toys. You can keep cookies/ juice/fruits/cake etc. as medicines.
Trust me my boy is not afraid of hospital trips anymore, all thanks to this kind of pretend-play. Also they develop a sense of caring and sympathy.
2. Shopping:
Cute sets of Cash Register toys are available in market these days. You can arrange few plastic fruits and vegetables, juice tetra packs, chips or cookie packets etc. for shopping. Currencies are usually included in such toys. One can even pretend and play without actual toy or just get a print out of it.
Kids enjoy behaving responsible like adults managing their cash and buying stuff. Also understand the value of money.
3. Reading:
The host can arrange few story books, picture books, touch and feel books etc. according to availability or can even ask the guests to bring 2-3 books of their choice. This way babies would get exposure to new books. Kids enjoy reading books and have fun telling stories to friends. They also love to show-off and tell the friends “what they know”.
4. School Theme:
As a child, I always loved to teach imaginary kids (LOL). Kids might enjoy pretending to be a teacher and disciplining fellow students. You just need few pages and pencils to hand over to the students. Teacher’s costume can be made little dramatic by giving her a spectacles.
5. Costume Party:
Everyone loves dressing-up. Just decide on the theme with mutual consent. Let it be a color theme, ethnic or traditional, regional (very much applicable to India where we have dressing based on the regions/states), Independence Day, Krishna Janmashtmi, Durga Puja, Diwali, Onam, halloween, Christmas, Jungle safari (just a handmade or market-bought animal face mask or face painting will also do).
6. Super Hero Theme:
Just give them drapes and them feel Super Power. Let them be free and run. Do utilize this opportunity to emphasis the importance of Power with Responsibility and Accountability. Kids love to help and be responsible.
Face painting can add little more color.
7. Art and Craft:
Kids can also be let to explore colors and textures. They enjoy themselves a lot in a company of favorite people. Few ideas:
- Hand/foot painting
- Spray painting
- Clay-doh craft
- Puppet making
- Home-made slime (Ask fellow moms to help in clean-up before they leave)
- Kinetic Sand
- Free play with colors – water colors, crayons. Print outs of few common objects would work.
8. Tea Party:
You can always inculcate a sense of a good host in your toddler by giving him responsibility to organize a Tea Party for his friends. Ask his suggestions regarding how the set-up of room should be, the snacks, the games etc.
9. Musical Chair:
An all-time hit with toddler who just love to run around. The spacing between chairs should be more with younger kids who might tend to lose balance or collide.
10. Balloon Party:
Simply blow up the balloons and let them fly in the room and then let the toddlers in. Believe me, they will love chasing balloons and will be tired in no-time. Just make sure to keep the furniture free and child-safe to prevent any kind of accidents.
11. Passing the ball:
Easy as Pie. Play on the music and keep passing the ball. The kids can be asked to recite poems, enact poems, tell stories as per their choice. Be prepared that this is going to be a never-ending game, as toddlers won’t like the idea of leaving the group.
12. Dance Party:
When nothing works, music works! Just put on the stomping music and let those energy balls roll and bounce.
Play Dates can also be tiring for the host. Some pointers to enjoy play date without making it stress:
- Keep the room furniture-free or minimal and ensure child-safety
- Food can be ordered or a pot-luck can be planned, or just simple snacks
- Ask fellow moms to bring extra pairs of clothes, socks, diapers, sanitizer,wipes, creams etc. that their baby might need
- Keep food/Juice/snack that their baby would prefer in case he doesn’t like the food offered by host
- Carry one of their baby’s favorite toy
- Keep options for food/ drinks ready beforehand
- Do get prior confirmations of the attendees
- Ask fellow moms to help in clean-up before they leave
- Most Important: PLEASE DO NOT BRING SICK CHILD TO PLAY DATE
Hope your toddler enjoys Play Dates.
Do share more ideas in comments. I am always on a hunt for new ideas!!
I’m a huge advocate of play dates. I love the detailed points here. Great listing of benefits.
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Thank u for reading.
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Play dates are always fun for both kids as well as parents. They are a great way to make a child more social and friendly.
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Yes and so much relaxing 😉
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Great listing of activities.. I would love to do all these you’ve mentioned once my girl gets big
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Sure. Thank you
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Hey, it is such a great post. All the ideas are nice and should be hit with kids. I am going to try some for sure.
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Thank you so much Neha. Hope you enjoy themed play dates
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Wow your list is very long and there are so many ideas for play dates for mom and toddlers. I remember in my childhood days we siblings played teacher teacher game so much. My elder sister play the role of teacher and we other as a students. Wow those days were very precious for me. And this way my sister teach us many great lessons of life. Like these your play dates ideas are also useful for teaching toddlers many concepts. Thanks for sharing
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Glad you liked the post. I used to enjoy and love teaching my little brother.
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These are amazing ideas. Keeping them in mind. Though we have not yet started with play dates. Will be helpful in the future 🙂
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Thank you. Hope you would enjoy
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Great ideas! I will be using this list as inspiration for my next play date 🙂
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Thank you. Happy to be useful.
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Wow…we just love play dates and you have given so much detailed ideas which we are going to steal and try. Thanks for the ideas and pointers.
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Glad you liked the ideas. Hope you and your lil one enjoy.
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Loved all the super fun ideas for playdates! My daughter is crazy about doctor pretend play and would play dates on that theme 🙂
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Thank you. Even my boy loves checking everyone’s temperature.
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Those are great play date ideas! Our play dates usually include blocks, balls, dancing, reading and a tea party every time. But I definitely wanna try doctor and musical chairs next time. And the school theme. Since Karma and her best friend now go to different schools, a school theme play date might bring back the fun they had when they both started same daycare and school together. 🙂
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That seems like a great idea. Hope Karma would enjoy!!
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Playdates are so much fun. Not just for the kids but even for the moms 😀. I loved reading the cute ideas you shared here
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Seriously, we need fun too.. Glad you liked the ideas.
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Play dates are great for kids. THey really help them to socialise and learn from others. Good pointers.
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Thank you
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Wonderful list of ideas! Kenisha is yet to have play dates but am noting these down. so far we are doing all these with just us and our labs 😀 they get to be the patients, the guest for the tea party n so on 😀
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Happy to know you found it useful. Thanks. Have fun
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I absolutely love these ideas! It never even crossed my mind to do THEMED play dates! I can’t wait to try some of these.
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Glad to know you the post useful. Have fun
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This is a great list of activities and ideas for toddlers. Play-dates are so important for learning and socializing for toddlers.
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Absolutely agree on this. Thanks for reading.
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Loved those ideas especially the doctor one and of course no sick kids to a play date. Awesome post mama.
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Thank you so much dear. Have fun!
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Great list! I would add BYOB (bring your own box). Everyone gets to decorate (stickers or paint) a box large enough to sit in so they can have “car” races or be on a “train” or row their “boats”. 🙂
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Wow. That sounds like a fun idea. Making note of it. Thanks.
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